I think I am the person with the problem.. I think too much into things and people.. I should just take things easy and not be too serious in handling everything.. I think i need to learn.. becos i have think too much.. with all the negative thinkings i have become more unhappy.. I like to guess what others are doing.. assuming what they are thinking and why they behaving in certain ways.. I have my own opinions but that does not mean is truely happening in the minds of others.. I have over think things..
I hate myself for that.. all the unhappiness is rooted from myself.. others are just being themselves.. I can't force them to do whatever that I feel confortable.. if they don't feel like talking to me, i can't force them to do so.. everybody has their own ways of living their life.. and I can't make everyone my friends if they just don't want to be.. and I should not have accomodate myself to fit into their circle if it is not suitable for me at all.. there is give and take.. if I want to gain the friendship and trust of a group of people, I will certainly face the loss of another group of friends.. everyone has their own standard of judging people.. and I can't be a person that can fit every standards.. I just have to accept that fact..
I just have to.. to be a happy person..
Sunday, May 31, 2009
I am an unhappy person..
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Why why? Why should you be so unhappy?
I was an unhappy person before and the reason is all same as you.
One day, i received an email. It is meaningful and the moral is "your happy is yours not others, others can't make you feel unhappy otherwise you were trick!"
Goodluck to you.
WQ
I feel exactly like you and i dont know how to overcome. Im 28 and have no friends. I am extremely anxious and feel like all my good years are gone. Like I missed out on so many friendships trying to keep one good friend and in the end just lost everything. Its over.
I know exactly how you feel. I feel like I wrote that, myself. I don't know what to do. My marriage is over. I am an unhappy person, and I have been for so long. Was it all me? She had affairs... blamed me... did not listen to what I was saying. I put up with so much, and I just wanted her to love me. But I drowned her sunshine with my clouds. I'm overwhelmed. How can I be happy when I'm overwhelmed with so much pain?
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